Mixed Emotions on Child Support

When you are faced with a situation that you think needs to happen for any change to arise…and then you feel like you don’t really want that to happen because it’s not good for your child. It’s hard to feel just one emotion at a time. It’s hard to feel love for a person, only because they are the father of that beautiful child you have. You want them to be in your child’s life as much as possible and to do their duties. When it doesn’t happen you are left to travel the unknown of emotions and trying to keep your child’s emotions and experiences positive. You want to take time away from that person or however will they learn??? But you know deep down that time away from them is time your child will never get back again. It’s heart wrenching to know what your child is being put through and that these things could effect them for the rest of their lives. All you can do is wait and hope they won’t turn out that bad from all this.

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One response to “Mixed Emotions on Child Support

  1. I have learned over the years when my son was of baby (he’s 11yrs old now), that even though the father is not in a child’s life. The mother has to be strong and keep a positive mind about the situation. As my son got older he would ask for his father and I would tell him that he has some things that he has to take care of and that he will always love you. I never bugged his dad for child support and I knew eventually either he was going to come to his senses and take on his responsibility or his son wasnt going to want to be around him at all.

    When my son turned 9years old his dad got his personal business together and asked me if my son can live with him. We have a joint situation that works out just fine. besides skype helps out alot ;). There are always different scenarios in the child support situations.

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